核心代码

    TableColumn<Person, CheckBox> registered_col = new TableColumn<Person, CheckBox>("Registered"); 

// registered_col.setCellValueFactory(new PropertyValueFactory("checkBox"));
registered_col.setCellValueFactory(new Callback<TableColumn.CellDataFeatures<Person,CheckBox>, ObservableValue<CheckBox>>() {

        @Override
        public ObservableValue<CheckBox> call(CellDataFeatures<Person, CheckBox> param) {
            CheckBox checkBox = new CheckBox();
            checkBox.setOnAction(new EventHandler<ActionEvent>() {

                @Override
                public void handle(ActionEvent event) {
                    System.out.println("nihao ");
                }
            });
            return new ReadOnlyObjectWrapper<CheckBox>(checkBox);
        }
    });

// registered_col.getCellData(index)
registered_col.setCellFactory(new Callback<TableColumn<Person,CheckBox>, TableCell<Person,CheckBox>>() {

        @Override
        public TableCell<Person, CheckBox> call(TableColumn<Person, CheckBox> param) {
            TableCell<Person, CheckBox> tableCell = new TableCell<Person, CheckBox>(){
                @Override
                protected void updateItem(CheckBox item, boolean empty) {
                    super.updateItem(item, empty);
                    if(!empty)
                        setGraphic(item);
                }
            };              
            return tableCell;
        }
    });

//====================如果需要数据同步，即数据由多变少时的同步

    TableColumn<OrderBean, CheckBox> is_selectCol = new TableColumn<OrderBean, CheckBox>("选择"); 
    is_selectCol.setCellValueFactory(new Callback<TableColumn.CellDataFeatures<OrderBean,CheckBox>, ObservableValue<CheckBox>>() {

        @Override
        public ObservableValue<CheckBox> call(CellDataFeatures<OrderBean, CheckBox> param) {
            CheckBox is_select = param.getValue().is_selectProperty();
            return new ReadOnlyObjectWrapper<CheckBox>(is_select);
        }
    });
    
    is_selectCol.setCellFactory(new Callback<TableColumn<OrderBean,CheckBox>, TableCell<OrderBean,CheckBox>>() {

        @Override
        public TableCell<OrderBean, CheckBox> call(TableColumn<OrderBean, CheckBox> param) {
            TableCell<OrderBean, CheckBox> tableCell = new TableCell<OrderBean, CheckBox>(){
                @Override
                protected void updateItem(CheckBox item, boolean empty) {
                    super.updateItem(item, empty);
                    if(empty){
                        setGraphic(null);
                    }else {
                        setGraphic(item);
                    }                           
                }
            };              
            return tableCell;
        }
    });