小时候特别喜欢看的电影就是简.奥斯丁的《傲慢与偏见》，反复看了好多遍至今还是很喜欢，因为她堪称经典中的经典。喜欢欧式的田园风格，喜欢纯正的英伦口音，喜欢古典的高雅淳朴。有一些桥段现在仍然记忆犹新，电影中的Mr.达西先生也因此成为很多人白马王子化身。
When i was a child i was particularly fond of watching the movie Jane. Austin's "Pride and Prejudice",now i still like it very much even already read it many times,it is called one of the most classic works.I like its European farmhouse style,like its pure British accent,like its classic elegance.Some episode are still fresh in memory,Mr.Darcy in the film also became charming prince for lots of people.
1 现实生活中存在傲慢与偏见，有可能严重影响到我们的生活，不仅阻碍了我们清醒的认知，还阻碍了我们的成长进步。
There is arrogance and prejudice in real life that can seriously affect our lives,not only hinder our awareness,but also hinder our growth and progress.
现实中的我们有傲慢与偏见，不仅仅在爱情里，也体现在生活的方方面面。
We have arrogance and prejudice in reality,not only in love,but also in all aspects of life.
《傲慢与偏见》里伊丽莎白初次见达西认为对方是傲慢的，达西也认为伊丽莎白的家庭没有教养，两人有了误会和偏见。达西第一次求婚时，伊丽莎白说了很多伤人的话狠狠拒绝了他。直到后来慢慢认识到达西的高尚品格，开始尊敬他了，一直以来都是自己错怪他了。误会和偏见才慢慢消融，两人相爱而结婚。
At "Pride and Prejudice"when Elizabeth first saw Darcy she judged him to be arrogant,while Darcy believed that Elizabeth's family is not good in behavior,they had misunderstanding and prejudice for each other.When Darcy proposed first time to Elizabeth,Elizabeth severely refused him and said a lot of wounding words.Until later she slowly realized the noble character of Darcy,and began to respect him,she had been misunderstanding and prejudice of him,the two cleared the misunderstanding and loved each other then got married.
因为傲慢我们拒绝了很多错过了很多，因为偏见我们误会了很多，看错了很多，影响了我们的判断。
Because of arrogance we refused a lot of things and miss a lot of opportunities,we misunderstood a lot,got wrongs a lot,it was affecting our judgments.
现实中也是这样，一个朋友亲戚给她介绍了一个男朋友，第一次约见面的经历不是很愉快。男生迟到了，那天下着雨还没带伞。
It is similar in reality,there is a friend her relative introduce her a boyfriend,the first meeting experience was not very happy.The boy was late,and did not take the umbrella but it was raining outside.
因为这次印象后朋友觉得男生不太好，尽管双方其实都还算优秀，最后还是不了了之。
Because of the impression my friend did not feel good about the boy,although they are both actually very good person,and finally there is no result.
“傲慢让别人无法爱你，偏见让你无法爱别人。”
有很多类似的经历告诉我们有时候是被傲慢偏见蒙蔽了双眼，因而无法接近美好的事物。如果没有放下评判，不懂从容接纳，理解包容，多给一次机会，就无法成就美好。
"Pride makes others unable to love you,and prejudice makes you unable to love others."There are many similar experiences tell us that we are sometimes blinded by arrogance and can not get close to the good things.If you do not put down the judgement,do not understand and accept others,do not give understanding and tolerance,and give more of a chance,you can not reach good things.
2如果不是比较严重，触及底线和违背原则的事我们还是可以接受的。像一些无关乎大事的小错误，有时候不去计较，放宽心，多接纳包容，反而是一个人大度的高尚品质，才能有好结果。
If it is not too serious things or hitting the bottom line and contrary to the basic principles we can still accept them.Like some small things that do not affect to reach big things,sometimes we do not need to care about them,take it easy,give more tolerance,on the contrary it reflects a person of noble character.And will have good result.
我们有个客户要求我们的产品质量都是高端一级的。一次不小心我们做错了，因为交代了很多次的一个细节，我们还是没有做好。
We have a customer require our product to be high quality. We did wrong one time carelessly, the details were told many times,but we still did not do well.
客户生气了，不希望有这种事情发生。我们很紧张，担心他不和我们合作了。
Our customer was angry and did not want this kind of thing happened.We are very nervous,worried that he did not want to cooperate with us.
尽管如此，客户居然和我们说，我给你们反映这个问题，不是以后不给你们生产，是要让你们注意，你们还是可以继续做，我只是让你们知道正确的做法，下次不要出现这个问题就可以了。
However,our customer told that it did not mean i didn't want to give you order,i just told you this problem to let you pay attention,you can still continue to produce, I just let you know the correct way,and next time will be all right if they do not have this problem.
于是我们感慨，客户的不拘小节 。因为我们确实出现了错误，然而客户没有计较，只是告诉我们下次要注意。我们后来合作了好多年都很愉快，一直都没有换过供应商。
So we feel our customer was not punctilious.We did have a mistake,but our customer just told us to pay attention next time and did not trifle with us.So we have been working together for many years and are very happy,he did not change supplier all this time.
3可以说我们每个人或多或少的都存在傲慢与偏见，不仅我们自己有偏见，也有其他人的偏见，我们对待事情要有一个清醒的认识，避免受傲慢和偏见干扰。
It can be said that everyone of us have arrogance and prejudice more or less, not only prejudice of our own,but also prejudice from other people, we must have clear understanding of things to avoid arrogance and prejudice.
我们年轻一代的大学生来到城市里工作，根还没扎稳，骨子里还受着农村老一辈的思想影响，在世俗里存在着很多偏见，比如
我们现在虽然在男女平等的今天，仍然有重男轻女的偏见。比如前几天发生的榆林孕妇跳楼事件，也是因为愚昧的认为无痛分娩会影响孩子，傻乎乎坚持顺产，造成孕妇跳楼的惨状。
Our young generation of college students came to work in the city, the root is not stable,in their bones they are affected by the older generation of rural thought,there are many prejudices in the secular, for example in the equality of men and women today,there are people still prefer boys to girls.Such as a few days ago the Yulin pregnant women jumping event, it was because the ignorance thoughtthat painless childbirth will affect the child, silly adhere to the natural childbirth,and caused the pregnant women jumping to death.
如果我们的观点会造成不良后果，就不要坚持自以为是，如果我们想法不能让自己进步，那就要考虑这是不是因为偏见，如果我们某一方面一直做不好，那在这个领域，我们看事情的第一反应，很大可能就是偏见。
If our point of view will cause bad consequences, do not insist that yourself is right, if we can not make ourselves progress, it is necessary to consider if it is prejudice, if we have been doing in a certain field for a long time without result, then in this field,the first reaction we see things is likely to be prejudice.
4学习与偏见作斗争，弱小和无知不是生存和发展的障碍，傲慢与偏见才是。
Learning to fight with prejudice, weak and ignorance is not obstacle to survival and development, arrogance and prejudice is.
当你看到有人勇于突破自己而取得难以想象的进步，你就会感叹思想的伟大。我们急需要认识自己的观点和想法，不断的调整和更正，使之适应变化和发展的脚步。
When you see someone daring to break through of their own and make unimaginable progress, you will shocked the greatness of thought. We need to know our own ideas, constantly adjust and correct them to adapt the changes and the pace of development.
要勇于站在时代前沿和跟上大城市的发展潮流，吸收创新的思想，取得前所未有的突破。只有正确的想法才能引领我们走向一个更广阔的天空，获得更多美好和未来。
Stand at front of the times and keep up with the development trend of big cities, absorb the idea of innovation, make an unprecedented breakthrough. Only the right idea can lead us to a broader sky,and get more beautiful things and future.
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