When I read the book《Thinking, fast and slow》,study of priming effects our judgment and our choices. So I was trying to find the prime feeling is kind of the first impression.
How it was happened? When you talk about the work, which words will jump to your brain?Such as “Busy”, “lazy”, “energy” or “exhausted”. That was the initial feeling,many words will be evoked and it was impact the people decision.
So how to change the people thinking, we can find lots of book and articles about enhance our impression, I will give some suggestion:
First,be on time,when you meet someone for the first time, Do not late, there are no excuse for running late. Plan to arrive a few minutes early. Arriving early is much better that arriving late, hands down, and is the first step in creating a great first impression.
Second,be Yourself, If you are feeling uncomfortable and on edge, this can make the other person ill at ease and that's a sure way to create the wrong impression. If you are calm and confident, so the other person will feel more at ease, and so have a solid foundation for making that first impression a good one.
Last,present Yourself appropriately,Of course physical appearance matters. The person you are meeting for the first time does not know you and your appearance is usually the first clue he or she has to go on.
