霉霉全球演唱会超有深度演讲：只有你自己，才能定义你内心的美好与价值。
You’re seeing all these angles of your own life, and then you compare it to other people’s lives when you don’t see what they’re going through, you just see the good parts of what they’re going through, am I right?
你看着自己生活的方方面面，然后拿来跟别人的生活作对比，但你并不知道他们实际的经历，只是看到他们生活中光鲜的一面，对吗？
And so, I say to you, when you start to compare yourselves to other people, please change the channel in your mind to something else, because I think that when it comes to how we see ourselves, other people are really mean,
所以我想告诉你们，当你们拿自己跟别人比较的时候，我希望你能把心思放在其他事情上。因为我觉得，当我们自我审视的时候，别人的观点是很严苛刻薄的，
but we’re really mean to ourselves and so it’s easy to get confused, and when you do get confused, um, and you start feeling like you’re not special, or you’re not different, or you have nothing important to say.
而我们又很重视自我，两相冲突就会令人很困扰。当你倍感困惑的时候，当你觉得自己流于平庸，平平无奇，甚至觉得自己不值一提。
We all feel like that sometimes, but what I want you to right now is, if there’s one thing you remember from tonight, remember what I’m about to say. You need to look into the mirror in the morning and not tell yourself that you’re not special, or you’re not good enough, you’re not pretty, or you’re not awesome.
我们有时都会这样想，但我现在想让你做的是，如果今晚有什么事你记得的话，记得我要说的话。早上你需要对着镜子，不要告诉自己你不特别，或者你不够好，你不漂亮，或者你不棒。
I’m gonna tell you right now the things you actually are not. These are the things you really are not. You are not the opinion of somebody who doesn’t know you. You are not damaged goods just because you made mistakes in your life. You are not going nowhere just because you haven’t gotten where you want to go yet.
我现在就告诉你事实上你不是。这不是真正的你。不了解你的人，他们说的根本不是真实的你。你犯下的错并不会毁掉你。尚无目标，并不意味着你的未来渺茫。
Those are the things you actually are not. Now, I want to tell you what you are. You are your own definition of beautiful and worthwhile, that’s what you are. You are someone who is wiser because you made mistakes, not damaged, wiser.
这些都不是真正的你。现在，我想告诉你你到底是怎样的。你是你自己对美丽和有价值的定义，这才是你。你是因为犯错而愈加理智的人，不是被毁掉，是更加理智。
You are somebody who could be at this moment, right now, sitting there, there, there, there, you are going through whatever you’re going through whatever in your life that’s stressing you out, or confusing you, or making you upset.
你生活在当下，就现在，坐在台下，这边，那边，还有那边。你经历生活中的种种，就算它们令你倍感压力，令你困惑，或者令你沮丧。
But you got out of bed and put on an awesome outfit, and you came to a concert and now we’re all having the best time ever on a Wednesday night. You know it’s not about perfection; it’s about just getting on with things sometimes.
但是你清晨起床，好好打扮，来这看演唱会，又能和我们一起享受这最美好的周三夜晚。你知道，这无关完美，而是在某些时候去大方应对。
Sometimes you just get credit for getting up and going on with things, and you don’t have to do it perfectly.
有时候，你只是因为站起来继续努力而得到赞扬，你不必做得很完美。
I think that we mistake our mistakes for damage, and we think other people judge us for them, but I want you to know the way that I see mistakes is, they don’t make you damaged, they make you clean.”
我认为我们把自己一时的错误误认为会毁掉自己，我们认为别人会因此对我们评头论足，但我想让你知道，我是怎样看待过错的，错误不会毁掉你，而是让你更加透彻清明。”
