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深夜东八区 ID：traveller2333
阎成席编译英文

1

****第一个情人，叫“健康”。****
****First Lover is called “Health”.****

People say, it is totally fruitless to keep yourself alive without health.
都说，没了健康，活着就是白搭。

Fuck buddies do not lack, yet no steam ; a girl of my dream beside, yet no guts to hit on her; life goals do tug at my heart but my body would barely budge; the love of my life is there, yet I can't commit to her a lifetime bond, ....out of gas for anything worthy.

这段英文是抄录简书英语高人“ @Lady A ”帮我修改的译文，特此致谢！

有炮友，没力气打；有姑娘，不敢牵手；有理想，没有身体支撑；有爱人，不敢轻易承诺白头……似乎做什么事都有心无力，索然无味。

A man, poor or ugly, or who resides in unfixed-abode or lives helpless, should have the good health.
一个人可以穷，可以丑，可以飘无定所，可以孤独无援，但就是不能没了健康。

You may start anew for your goal with good health and proper efforts to demonstrate your life qualities and values, but the game is totally over without good health as you just lose the chance to cheer yourself on.
有了身体，你才可以努力，才可以重新开始，才可以证明自己，而身体没了，一切都完了，你就失去了为自己呐喊的机会。

So when you aspire after your ideals, it will be ok with proper achievements without caring about earthshaking ones; when you feel duty-bound to do something or work under great pressure, it will be all right if you have put yourself to it with no need to drive yourself into a corner; in case of the emotional breakdown and the tormented feelings in your heart (情绪崩溃), it will be ok to cry your heart out without any self-reproach and anguish or feeling helplessly obsessed( 困扰的/不能自拔的).
所以，当你追求理想的时候，有成就就行，无需惊天动地；当你有责任和压力的时候，尽力就行，无需把自己逼到绝境；当你情绪崩溃，心里溃堤成河的时候，大哭一场也行，无需自怨自艾，沉沦而不能自拔……

You have numerous engagements with several men and finally get married. Love and hatred, right and wrong, gratitude or resentment(愤恨/不满) will all become the phantom(幻影); a man should be frank and open-minded and remain undisturbed either by favor or disgrace, while casually watching the blooming and falling flowers.
人生不过谈几恋爱，结一次婚，爱恨情仇，是非恩怨终成幻影，人活着就要爽快豁达，宠辱不惊，闲看庭前花落。

In your life, health is the best investment made by you and it is only a fool who can sacrifice his health for materials.
这一生，健康才是对自己最好的投资，而用身体拼命去换取物质的人简直就是傻瓜。

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Second Lover is called “Peace”
****第二个情人，叫“平安”。****

“Peace” really matters in our life.
人生在世，唯独“平安”二字。

In my childhood, several friends walked in line when a truck passed by only to find a girl gone. Then several families were plunged into silence and swallowed the bitterness(n.痛苦/悲痛), but they failed to relieve themselves out of the dull pain like Rheumatism.
记得小学时，几个朋友并排走，一辆卡车过来，一个女孩子就没了。然后就是几个家庭的沉默和创伤，时不时就像风湿隐隐作痛，难以释怀。

Now it is often reported that some babies or small kids are abducted and sold; human organs are sold for evil money or once in a while, you are probally robbed or blackmailed on the street, much less invisible risks.
现在婴儿会被贩，器官会被卖，走在大街上会被抢劫碰瓷，更不用说那些隐形的风险。

Anyhow, life is really fragile, so we are unable to stand an accident or any futile and thankless work. A couple with a child dare not let the child go out alone while a couple without a child fears to give birth to a child. Cruelty occurs within a flash of thought in this world.
生命真的很脆弱，禁不起一次意外和折腾。有孩子的不敢让孩子出门，没孩子的害怕生孩子，这个世界的残忍，总会在一念之间爆发。

It is our constant hope that our life can shine in its entire splendor, but many beautiful things will come to naught instantly without peace and safety. We can not change the environment but we can only take care of ourselves attentively.
我们总希望自己的生命能够万丈光芒，但没有了平安，很多美好都会顷刻化为乌有。我们改不了环境，只能选择了用心照顾自己。

Only when we act with caution and restraint in this world can we protect ourselves and our family to the maximum.
所以对于这个世界，保有一份谨慎和克制，才是对自己和身边亲人最大的保护。

Weal and woe alternates just in store for us. It gets worse for all eternity with the mere incaution or negligence. Don’t take any chances, or take things lightly but keep ourselves in peace, and we can remain happy.
福祸之间，并非遥远，一个不小心和粗心大意就会万劫不复。不抱有侥幸，不抱有轻视，守得住平安，就守得住幸福。

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Third Love is called “Happiness”.
第三个情人，叫“快乐”。

There are many people who make much ado about nothing but may suffer chest pain as they are haunted by imaginary fears.
这世上庸人自扰的人很多，想太多，真的会胸痛。

Did I deal with the matter in the proper way? Is that guy sick of me? How come the plan fails to come out as estimated or expected? Does she love me or not? Excessive thought like this is a total waste of time without the desired answers but you just ask for trouble.
这件事自己做的对不对？那个人是不是很讨厌自己？为什么事情又没达到自己的预估？她到底爱不爱我？……想太多也是白想，没有答案，只有自我难受。

Happiness is actually a pretty simple and cheap thing but also a hard-won matter, depending upon your mentality.
快乐其实是件挺简单廉价却又难得的事儿，全凭人的心态。

An easily contented and strong-willed person can feel quite satisfied even in adversity when he has the plain life with ordinary daily necessities, mainly involving woods, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.; an insatiable man with stronger internal desires finds it rather difficult to make himself happy in doing anything.
容易满足，内心充盈的人，就算过着材米油盐酱醋茶的平淡生活，也甘之如饴；内心欲求不满，看不淡的人，做任何事情似乎都难以让自己快乐起来。

What’s happiness? It is the time when you are tenderly loved and cared by someone who can live through the ordinary days together with you, accompanying you to watch the twilight of the setting sun and keeping you company hand in hand all along until you are both old with grey hair without tremendous properties or leaving behind your name to posterity. So you can feel warm-hearted and contented while enjoying an easy life.
什么是快乐，有人爱，有人疼，有人陪着自己过似水流年的日子，有人陪着自己看暮薄西山，有人牵着自己执手白头……无需家财万贯，无需青史留名，只是过着自己的小日子，暖心而惬意。

Life is just like a dream. Day and night takes its own course regardless of your tears or smiles. There is no need to live with a face fully covered with wrinkles just like a black dog. If so, you just spoil the good mood of others.
人生恍如梦，哭也一天，笑也一天，何必让自己活得满脸皱巴巴，自己不开心，也搅和了别人的心情。