How many guys can remember your child's birthday? How many people could remember your mother's birthday?
Why is this happening to you? Your child is raised by your hands. Certainly almost every year of his or her birthday, there is a party to celebrate it.
Do you ever remember the latest time you spend your time with your mother to celebrate the birthday of her. Could you recall the happiness of her, when you say happy birthday to her.
Why she is so happy? Because everyone's big birthday such as forty years or fifty years, is a very important milestone of life. It is deserved to be concerned. But in some cases, there are some kinds of reasons to make you missed the opportunity to express your love to mother. For example, you were so young to be aware of you should say that to your mother.
I still have the vision of my mother's forty years birthday in my mind. It is one day of August, when I was teen, my mother took me and my several cousins to the restaurant in town near my home. My favorite food is the boiled prawns with salt. My mother ordered it for us. It was so delicious. After lunch we got another good tasting food ice cream. It's so happy for us. I seemed forget it was the birthday of my mother.
You may have the same experience like me. When her birthday came, your mother didn't ask for gifts or greetings. She just wanted you to stay with her. It's a so simple ask for you.
She needs you pay attention to her. She is deserved you have time to listen her. She also has the request to be familiar with the new lifestyle.
There is another story about my mother's birthday. This year is her seventy years birthday. We decided to hold a big celebration for her. Before the dinner started, she asked me to made a speech to welcome the guests. It is not a easy task for me. It is a prepared speech. I wrote the effort she made for work, for family, for friends. After her review, I made a successful speech in public. This success is not only for me, but also for my mother. She received the sincere blessing from friends, and selfless love from family. It is a big day of her to show the value of life.
Your mother is a cook, a babysitter, a housekeeper in her daily life. But In her deep thoughts, she may have the wish to be a singer, a dancer, a traveller.
What you need to do is to make chance to let her wish become the reality. It should be a very exciting experience for both of you and your mother. You can strongly feel the happiness from your mother when she fulfilled her wishes. This kind of feeling is the best reward for you be the child of her.
At last, I would like to share my story how to make my mother be a traveller. Before I had my trip to Alps, I booked a similar trip for my parents to experience them in advance. When I received the call for my mother, she was on the peak of snow mountain in Switzerland. I can feel the excitement transferred from her voice.
"Here is so beautiful. The air is so fresh". "But here is so cold, you didn't remind us to prepare coats".
"Oh! It is my fault. I also have no experience with snow mountain".
"It is not a big deal. We put on all the clothes. We can handle this".
You see, cold weather is not a barrier to stop your mother being a traveller.
