What do you think of intending to build a satisfying personal life alongside your professional life?
You are working hard to provide a better life for your family but you unwittingly overlooked your spouse and children. Because investing time and energy in them is not like offering same achievements as your work does.
But I can't neglect my relationships with my family. On a day today basis, things don't seem become deteriorating. Because your spouse is still there when your get home every night. Kids find new ways to misbehave all the time. You can't put your hands on your hips and say after twenty years we raised good kids.
Though you may believe your family is deeply important to you.But you actually allocate fewer and fewer resources to things you would say matter most.
Check how you spend your time ,energy and money on what really matters to you.
You can say you want about having a clear pattern for your life but ultimately this means nothing if you are not investing the resources you have in a way with your patterns. In the end, a pattern is nothing but good intentions unless it's effectively implemented.