捕捉此间的想法，点亮心灯，照亮前方的路。
——题记
很多校园霸凌的产生根源是家庭里父母打孩子，让孩子以为大人就可以打小人。
A large amount of school bullying is rooted in parents' hitting the child at home, an outcome which may well result in the latter’s misconception that it is not at all wrong for larger people to bully the smaller ones.
然而，真正有效的教育在于升级认知。这个结果没有达成，打孩子其实不仅无效，而且伤害亲子关系，对建立亲密家庭无益。
Yet, the truly effective parenting is of a cognition-upgrade nature. Not reaching this level, beating the child is generally neither productive nor beneficial to build up affection and closeness among family members, which impairs the parent-child relationship.
因此，作为父母，重点应该思考用何种有建设性的方法升级孩子的认知。进一步想，更重要的其实是如何持续升级自己的认知。生活处处皆用脑啊！
Thus, as parents, we should give priority to the constructive way we enhance our child’s cognition. If we think it over, it is how to improve our own cognition that actually matters more. Life is full of moments when we need to use our brains!
Note:
at home 强调地点“家”，
in the family 有“家人”这层语义。
家族企业，可以说 “in the family business”。
——The End——
2019, 还有好多好玩的事要做呢！
