最理想的婚姻: The best marriage:
一屋两人 Two people in one house
三餐四季 Four seasons
五次 Five times
狗在跑, The dog is running,
我在闹, I'm busy,
他在笑。 He was laughing.
夏天的傍晚一起去散步, Go for a walk together in the summer evening.
回家的路上 On the way home
顺手买一个西瓜, Buy a watermelon in your hands.
你说“太重我来提吧” You say, "I'm too heavy."
最初喜欢于样貌, First like appearance,
然后却沉溺于才情, And then indulge in talent,
最后折服在于三观。 The final compromise lies in three views.
有钱,有爱,有孩子 Money, love, children
他不出轨, He's not out of the rails.
我不出轨, I'm not out of the rails.
就足够了。 That's enough.
醒同笑睡同床 Wake up with a smile and sleep with a bed
生同房死同墓 Death and death in the same house
我崇拜他像个英雄 I adore him like a hero
他宠爱我像个孩子 He spoiled me like a child
世间浪漫太多,我只羡慕这一种:
“多年前,读到英国传记作家概括最理想的婚姻:’我见到她之前,从未想到要结婚;我娶了她几十年,从未后悔娶她;也未想过要娶别的女人。‘我把它念给钟书听,他当即回说,‘我和他一样’,我说,’我也一样。‘”————————杨绛