Confucius ,one of the most famous chinese ancient educationist and politician said:a man should be independent at the age of 30.what about you？Do you think you are able to independent by yourself around your 30tiesties？how do you think about the concept of independence？

    30ties is an awkard age,whether you are married or not,you must accept a truth that parents are getting older and older,you suddenly have to take more responsbilities,work puzzles,difficulties in your new found family,baba rising and education,wow,if you are ready or not,30ties is coming up to you without any approval.

    30ties is turning corner of your life,your personality is gradually mature but not good enough,you often depressed by what you have done and your are so puzzled by the gap of the reality and your dream,you may not recgnize the direction of your life very clearly.

      30ties is a age makes you feel upset,because time flies so fast,it seems that the elder ones are all successful,and the young guy are try their best to show their abilities,that will give you a lot of pressure invisible，you have to fight for your family for the fame,but you maybe lost during the process.you ask yourself,why I struggle for indeed,what is my original destination.

      30ties is a age trapped you,and a age spurred you,you are growing with all the experiences you have had,you are painful but happy at the sametime.when you are so weak  you are so sorry,cause you can not satisfy all the people around you,even yourself,but you always say to yourself:come on！you must to be responsible,for the ones love me and beloved by me,although I am not strong and enable enough.

      You maybe donot know, from the time you want to be responsible for the others,you are the real 30ties something.