志在山顶的人，不会贪恋山腰的风景。

所知有限，求知无涯。

心理咨询不是看病，是为你的状态，私人定制一套解决方案。<br>心理咨询师（高级）<br>婚姻情感咨询师（高级）<br>家庭教育指导师<br>在奋斗和躺平边缘反复横跳的心理咨询师，擅长处理各种反复无常。<br>私信我，可获得免费咨询的机会哦~<br>评论留言，即可得免费心理咨询一次。

<br>在美国很火的一首小诗，其中有很多哲理，分享给大家共勉：<br><br>纽约时间比加州时间早三个小时， <br>New York is 3 hours ahead of California, <br><br>但加州时间并没有变慢。 <br>but it does not make California slow. <br><br>有人22岁就毕业了， <br>Someone graduated at the age of 22, <br><br>但等了五年才找到好的工作！<br>but waited 5 years before securing a good job! <br><br>有人25岁就当上CEO， <br>Someone became a CEO at 25, <br><br>却在50岁去世。 <br>and died at 50. <br><br>也有人迟到50岁才当上CEO， <br>While another became a CEO at 50, <br><br>然后活到90岁。 <br>and lived to 90 years. <br><br>有人依然单身， <br>Someone is still single, <br><br>同时也有人已婚。 <br>while someone else got married. <br><br>奥巴马55岁就退休， <br>Obama retires at 55, <br><br>川普70岁才开始当总统。 <br>but Trump starts at 70. <br><br>世上每个人本来就有自己的发展时区。 <br>Absolutely everyone in this world works based on their Time Zone. <br><br>身边有些人看似走在你前面，<br>People around you might seem to go ahead of you, <br><br>也有人看似走在你后面。 <br>some might seem to be behind you. <br><br>但其实每个人在自己的时区有自己的步程。 <br>But everyone is running their own RACE, in their own TIME. <br><br>不用嫉妒或嘲笑他们。 <br>Don’t envy them or mock them. <br><br>他们都在自己的时区里，你也是！ <br>They are in their TIME ZONE, and you are in yours! <br><br>生命就是等待正确的行动时机。<br>Life is about waiting for the right moment to act. <br><br>所以，放轻松。 <br>So, RELAX. <br><br>你没有落后。 <br>You’re not LATE. <br><br>你没有领先。 <br>You’re not EARLY. <br><br>在命运为你安排的属于自己的时区里，一切都准时。 <br>You are very much ON TIME, and in your TIME ZONE Destiny set up for you.<br><br>

我是笑薇，南方姑娘远嫁西北，靠读书写作自由生活6年，曾在企业打过工，也在体制内试过水，当过北漂青年，如今小城安家，执着追梦。著有《左手阅读，右手写作》，文章首发公主号 笑薇读书。<br><br>

文史专家、作家，观止读书会发起人<br>著有《大汉史家：班氏家族传》等。<br><br>文章均为本人原创，约稿、转载或商务合作，请简信或添加悦史君助理微信“Lusoaqay“详谈。

书评公号：qy-talk <br>故事公号：E-Musing

请关注公众号：美好人生运营指南